The Secret of Love
THIS MAY BE THE BEST KEPT SECRET in all of life. Knowing how it works ends arguments between partners. It helps people parent better. Managers manage better and teenagers get their act together! It even helps activists realize social justice!
People have recovered from long standing addictions and people in jail have transformed from the inside-out. I was present to witness one such man receive a standing ovation from 1,000+ people at a conference in London, two summers ago.
The secret is so simple that many miss it while they search for love in all the wrong ways.
The secret is actually quite obvious, yet because of the very nature of LOVE, it’s like looking for glasses that are on top of your head.
The secret is… WE ARE LOVE at our core; at the level of pure Consciousness. Pure Consciousness never goes anywhere, no matter how much negative thinking a person does. It can be years of negative thinking; yet when a person WAKES UP to the power of pure Consciousness, uncontaminated by personal thinking, everything in their life shifts... all on its own.
The best example of this fact is your own observation. We have all seen babies cry and the moment they are cared for, they bounce right back. If you were to tickle the baby after they’ve been tended to, they will laugh! That’s the power of resiliency because the core of every human is pure LOVE; as soon as the negative thoughts pass, the beautiful feeling of LOVE is revealed.
Would you like to know what happens for a couple who begin to understand how this works?
Even if one person wakes up to this understanding about love and human nature:
They listen much deeper to their partner without filtering what is being said through what they already think they know.
They become curious about how their partner thinks.
Arguments stop because they are listening deeper with more curiosity.
Their happiness and good feelings are not dependent upon what their partner thinks or does.
They don’t need to change, fix or help their partner... they know they have innate intelligence and pure Consciousness within them as well.
❤️ Lori
